it’s a neutral question. without judgements.
I might think that other people have a different standard and judgement of success than me. When I ask this question I ask it neutrally, but sometimes people respond defensively. Sometimes I respond defensively. But why? Our own judgement of the statement. Speaking of judgement…
What does that mean?
When I hear this word it conjures up images of feedback and critical comments about one’s self.
I have realized that this is just a judgement that I have placed on this word.